Follow Your Fetish: How tutus and top hats helped me find my communities
I thought I’d share how I found my beloved communities or what some may call my tribes or chosen families… It’s actually a multi-layered story but I’ll focus on how the practice of Following Your Fetish (a methodology that I teach) helped me along the way… “Follow Your Fetish” is my tribute to Joseph Campbell’s…
ConvergeCon 2019 Seminar: The Desire Gauge: When Sexual Desirability is Tied to Self-Worth
Seminar on Saturday March 30, 2019 at 11am PSTLive at ConvergeCon Venue: Simon Fraser University Harbour Centre515 West Hastings StreetA conference on positive sexuality, relationship & activism I am so honored to be one of the selected speakers for a conference on positive sexuality, relationships and activism called ConvergeCon happening March 30-31, 2019 in Vancouver!…
The Desire Gauge: When Sexual Desirability is Tied to Self-Worth
What are the different ways in which your Sexual Desirability may be tied your Self-Worth? Cathy Vartuli from the IntimacyDojo interviews Little Woo about her new talk at the ConvergeCon 2019 conference! Her talk will be offered live at the conference on Saturday March 30, 2019 at 11am. You can buy conference tickets HERE. Many…
3 Keys to Authentic Connection
You can create genuine connections with people by using these 3 subtle yet critical mindsets! It has fundamentally changed my ability to meet and interact joyfully with many kinds of people! Filmed on location in Koh Phi Phi, Thailand. While traveling last month, I was thinking about some of the keys to authentic connection. For most…
First Encounters of Magic
Magic. It is such a great word. It conjures up images of illusionists doing magic tricks, sorcerers casting spells, mythical beasts roaming free or fairy dust being sprinkled around. However, most times when I say this word, I’m referring to the sense of absolute wonder that we feel when we experience the greatness of this…
Why Your Big Dreams AND Small Dreams Matter
We all have big dreams and small dreams. Some of us are taught that big dreams are unrealistic, egotistical or impossible. We are encouraged to stay in our comfort zones, be conservative and not risk our safety in this life! And then some of us are taught that small dreams are unimpressive, unimportant or boring.…
The Existential Ache: Why You Must Feed Your Soul
From childhood, we are taught how to do most of the basic things for survival… like how to eat, how to use the toilet, how to speak, how to walk or how to clean ourselves. Of course, we are also learning some of the norms of our immediate family; we discover what’s okay and what’s…
When you give & give but lack support in return
“What to do when you feel betrayed or disappointed by people very close to you? When you support others, but then when you need support, they don’t do the same in return?” This is the first part of a question I received… The rest of their question goes like this: “When you focus…